Through the eyes of therapy dogs...

Treatable vs Curable

2012-02-09T23:16:00.002-05:00

Today we learned that there is a big difference between treating something and curing something. Bode's biopsy results came back. He can be treated but what he has is not curable. He has an immune suppression disorder combined with irritable bowel syndrome.

Tonight he started a heavy, eight week, steroid regimen with other antibiotics that will taper throughout. During this, more tests will be run to ensure the dosing and meds do not cause other organs to face difficulty in processing. Goal #1 is to get him to eat and be able to process the food. Once he is eating and putting some of the 16 lbs on that he lost, we will switch to a protein rich prescription food. Goal #2 is to get him to feeling more energized and like himself. Goal #3 (which if you asked Bode, he would say was the first priority) is to get Bode back to work.

He is not thrilled to have to continue 3x a day medication, but believing that it will help has given us all hope. Tonight Tara took him to play with our first foster sibling, Blackey. He lives with our grandparents. Bode was able to play for a few minutes and then they just hung out together. Bode has not eaten more than a 1.5 cups of food this week (he used to eat 6 a day). Goal #1 will hopefully be fast...however we are cautious as they thought the steroid on Monday was supposed to do the same (the one he received through his IV during his procedure), but didn't.

Continue hoping and praying for speedy results so that Bode can return to his favorite thing...WORK!

~Abbey

Bode's Home

2012-02-06T21:28:00.004-05:00

Bode got home around 7 tonight. He is sleeping now and still coming out of the anesthesia. Tara said he was so excited to see her, but was so groggy from the meds that he was having trouble standing. Bode is definitely not feeling himself and very much showing signs of pain and discomfort, but who wouldn't be after that.

They were able to update some of the tests before the procedure and were ready to see what the endoscopy showed. The specialist said she was not expecting what she found. Bode's small intestine was instantly reluctant to let the endoscope through. The doctor described what should be rather smooth as appearing to be like a "cobblestone". The endoscope kept getting stuck and causing excessive bleeding. They had to give him a steroid in his IV to reduce the swelling in order to get the scope back out. The biopsies were sent to the lab and should be back on Thursday at the latest. The steroid should also mask some of the discomfort for the next 24-48 hours, but he is still supposed to lay low and remain calm.

Tara has filled us in with the best and worst case scenarios that the doctor shared. It is too much to share here, but once we know for certain, we will share. Bode's quality of life should not be impacted at all--Tara says no matter the outcome, however whatever he has is not curable, only treatable in the doctors eyes.

Bode is snoring with Chicklette cuddled up with him so I think I will go join in.

Tara asked me to thank all of you for your continued support and prayers. The texts, calls, emails, and Facebook messages have been very appreciated.

Bode (along with Tara and I) know our clients are missing him as much as he misses them, but right now he is not able to be in the office.

Until the next update...

Abbey

Waiting...

2012-02-06T16:23:00.001-05:00

Just to update our friends, family, and clients...Bode left with "dad" this morning at 830 to get to the vet by 930. The specialist is pretty far from our house! We have been waiting since then. Tara couldn't stand it anymore, or maybe it was a combo of mine and Chicklette's pacing along with the waiting, so she called the vet around 230. They stated Bode had not had the procedure done yet for a number of reasons, but he was ok and laying calmly in a crate. The vet shared that they would begin the procedure within the hour and that it should not take anymore than an hour. It is now almost two hours later, so we are hoping for a phone call soon....or Tara will probably call again!

We will let you know as soon as we can! The vet said the plan is still for Bode to come home tonight...

until later...

Abbey

Thanks for the birthday messages...my birthday wish...

2012-02-04T20:55:00.002-05:00

Wow, I am so overwhelmed with all the birthday messages and emails I received this week, along with get-well messages. It makes Tara, and our whole family, feel supported while we are trying to find out what is going on with me. So far being 6 is great...yes, I know it has only been 4 days!

My birthday stuffed toys

I am starting to get very nervous about Monday's endoscopy, however I believe Tara is more nervous. You'd think she was the one that was having to go through it. Continued prayers are very welcomed. I am hoping that I feel well enough to get my annual birthday cookie from the Cape Dog Bakery soon...don't get me wrong, I LOVE my new stuffed toys too, but those yogurt frosted cookies that we get for our birthdays are so delicious!

My new "baby"

I have been taking time to read up on what Abbey has been blogging and wanted to add to it. My birthday wish is for all dogs to have a chance at life and not be judged just by the breed they are. Isn't that like what humans call discrimination when someone looks different than the other?

The girls were wishing they had new toys too!

The new McDonald's ad sure isn't helping. I used to love sneaking a french fry here and there, but they no longer get mine (or Abbey's) support. Their latest add is horrible! It compares their new chicken to a stray pit bull (here is the radio ad version: McDonald's Pit Bull Ad). It would be one thing to say "stray dogs", but to specify pit bulls is not okay at all!

Let's focus on not discriminating. Look at this link that shows how a pit bull saved a veteran from taking his own life (Pit Bull Saves Veteran).

I will try to help Abbey keep up with the blog, but I am still not feeling great and it has taken me two whole days to write this blog entry!

With love,
Bode

I've been thinking....

2012-01-30T16:55:00.004-05:00

I’ve been thinking….

Today I was home with Chicklette (our foster sister), ourhuman brother, and Pop-pop while Tara took Bode to a doctor that is faraway. We waited and waited to hear howthings were going and kept watching out the window for their return. I knew something was different from when we go to the regular doctor, you could just tell….and Tara took her work bag, whichmeant she expected to be gone awhile!

Bode on the way to the specialist

Bode is back now and we are waiting on a couple more teststo come back, but are closer to a diagnosis. He has to go back on Monday for anendoscopy to help confirm the diagnosis and is on five meds and special food.His anxiety was like mine at the vet’s office, so Tara allowed them to give him a mild sedative. Itis still wearing off and Bode just wants to lay on the bed and cuddle.

As Bode was gone, I got to thinking. My thinking came fromhearing Tara talk to a few different people over the past few weeks that werediscussing people with mental illness being ostracized and pit bullbreeds/mixes being treated the same. We work with people for many reasons inour practice. Some of which are mental illness related. We have had several pitbulls around us as fosters and friends dogs. You can not label all pit bullsthe same, just as you cannot label all individuals with mental illness.

Tara jokingly tells people when they ask what breed we arethat I am an “Abbey” and Bode is a “Bode”. We know what we are for the mostpart, but that does not define us. There are plenty of people that do not havea diagnosable mental illness are that are just plain mean and obnoxious. A lot of that can be related to how they wereraised. The same goes for dogs. The maltese that bit Bode, the Chihuahua thatbit Tara are perfect examples. We have never been bit by a pit bull mix of anykind and as I mentioned, we have been around others.

Today Tara read an article about an actor in NY (Actor takes life after euthanasia of beloved dog) that tookhis life after his neighbors and landlord pressured him to get rid of his pitpull mix. After having his dogeuthanized, a perfectly healthy dog according to friends, he then took his ownlife from the guilt. There are indicators he had mental illness, however thatdoes not mean the dog did. That would be like saying that since Bode is so sickright now, he had to have gotten it from Tara or one of the other humans in thehouse. Not true!

Breed bans are not for the health and benefit of everyone,but continue to create fears and bias’. Take the Florida Marlins pitcher andhis wife who were unable to move into Miami and were forced to relocate on theoutskirts so that they could keep their pit bull. Miami euthanizes all pitbulls, not matter their demeanor, etc.

A perfect example of a dog that came from a place like Miamiand wasn’t given a fair chance, but should have been was Dulce. Dulce was ourfoster sister several months ago. She is a Staffordshire terrier mix who hadbeen through a lot. She lived with us and even went to the office to practicesome therapy skills. She was so great with our human brother and has one of herown in her forever family. Dulce shows no more signs of aggression than Bode orI, yet people would express fear in just looking at her. Dulce could have been,as a healthy dog, put down just because of the way she looks and we would havenever met her.

Dulce right before her adoption

Mental health in humans is not comparable to breeds in dogs,but is often thought of. If that were the case, would we euthanize someone justbecause they “could” do something destructive to society? Wouldn’t we all beeuthanized then? There are many theories about mental health and whether we areborn with it or not. Some we are and some we aren’t. Some develop and some gountreated, when they could be treated and show no affect on an individual. Withanimals, pit bulls specifically in this blog post, they are not born aggressive,but can be trained that way. I could have been trained that way and you can seemy “aggressive” side if you go to do something harmful to anyone (human orcanine) in my family, but that isn’t aggressive, that is protective!

Our thoughts and prayers go to the family and friends of theNY actor and the community as a whole for losing a life that could have beensaved by his dog. One of the biggest signs in suicide prevention is torecognize when someone loses a pet but choice or death. Pets can actually savelives, improve self esteem, act as ones personal therapist, and so much more.

Before you judge, stop and consider if maybe a pet is theanswer for someone else…even a pit bull!

I will hop off my soap box (as Tara calls it) now and wouldlove any feedback you care to share about this!

~Abbey

Bode kicked Tara out of the chair in the exam room...

Continued Prayers

2012-01-27T20:19:00.000-05:00

I feel like I have been going strong for so long now and try to keep everyone updated as much as possible, yet I am constantly tired. Bode has, again, taken a turn for the worse.

Tara and I keep debating on how much to share as we know many of you are concerned. We are very appreciative of the calls and emails for Bode's recovery. The latest update comes from some not-so-great blood tests that were taken Tuesday. Some of Bode's levels were very high and signifying the possibility of some pretty serious ailments. He has now lost 12 lbs and just does not want to eat.

Snuggling with a pillow pet

Last night was one of the more rough nights Bode has had. He struggles to sleep longer than an hour or so without waking in discomfort and needing to make sure he is touching one of us. He does not want to be alone at all! Tomorrow he goes in for another xray and then Monday Tara will be taking Bode to a specialist in Estero.

For now we ask for continued prayers for peace as there is so much stress as we wait to see what is going on.

Good night!

Abbey

When love has to be enough....

2012-01-24T20:37:00.002-05:00

We often feel that we can handle everything. How much can our mind, bodies, and hearts really take? Lately it feels like we are being tested in so many ways in all of these areas. We can decide to grow or succumb to the pressure.

Bode has had a relapse and we find ourselves again waiting on test results. Round 3 of meds started. First round of blood tests today inconclusive. Bode in a lot of pain. Work stresses adding up. The clients asking and becoming fearful of Bode's absence...and so much more!

Bode went into the office today with Tara and I today but wasn't sure about actually spending time with clients. He is so needy though, so he has to be in the room with Tara. I feel so helpless. My GIANT baby brother is in so much pain and discomfort. I don't know what to do. His birthday is in one week.

Prayers continue. Sleep is needed. How much can we take? The limits seem to continually be tested. I can do this. Bode can do this. Tara can do this. Our family can do this.

To health, happiness, and harmony the rest of the week!

Abbey

Safety first

2012-01-17T17:46:00.000-05:00

Tara came home last night and shared with us a situation that happened at a rescue meeting. The group from the rescue was talking about everything that is happening with events, trainings, and more. Next to them was a couple with a beautiful dog that was well behaved. A family with two children came and sat nearby and the parents stopped watching the children. Tara was telling us that the children kept running up and being obnoxious toward the dog by picking at him, teasing him with food, charging at him, cornering him, and more.

The rescue group was distracted by this and watching the dogs body language, which was stating he was tolerating as much as he could, but was having to resist biting. Finally one of the volunteers went and spoke with the dogs owner who expressed concern over what was happening but uncertainty as to what to do. The volunteer helped the owner share with this children and parents that the dog was a nice dog but needed space and the children needed to respect the dog.

In a situation like this, it could turn ugly...FAST! It is important for parents to not only watch their children, but educate them on the fact that us dogs are just that....dogs! We don't have the words to share what is going on and rely on the knowledge of our humans to read our feelings. There are many websites for education on dogs and kids, but the real truth is that if a bite would have happened, the dog would have been blamed and not the menacing children.

Please take time to educate yourself, peers, and most importantly children you know with how to greet dogs. Thankfully our human brother does this well, even with us. He was praised twice recently when he approached a goat the same way he knows to approach dogs and once when they were out of town and he saw a dog he wanted to visit with. The owner was shocked that such a little boy knew just what to do....even grownups sometimes forget to give us the space we need!

Dog language is not human language, however you can learn to be somewhat bilingual!

With safety in mind....

Abbey and Bode

Our friend Charlie is FAMOUS~!

2012-01-17T17:38:00.001-05:00

Our friend Charlie appeared on America's Funniest Home Videos this past Sunday from this taping.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1PN_SntCQA&feature=share

Such great news...

2012-01-15T21:16:00.000-05:00

We are so excited to see this post! Domestic Violence Against Animals Bill being initiated, along with the Animal Abuse Registry Bill.

Domestic Violence Against Animals

Animal Abuse Registry

Bode update

2012-01-15T21:02:00.004-05:00

It has been over two weeks since Bode first went to the vet for this illness. He is not himself, but we are seeing some signs of the "normal" Bode returning. Tuesday he went back to the to the vet for an xray of his belly and they thankfully found out that he does not have bloat or a tumor (the two biggest fears of the vet), however they were surprised to find what they did. The xray showed his belly full of gas and swelling on his organs, more specifically his pancreas.

This is about the summary of Bode's last two weeks...curled up on the couch day and night

Bode lost more weight and is close to being down 9lbs since this started. That is really the biggest fear of our vet, Dr Monte, at this point. She told Tara that she is comfortable in reporting that she feels these symptoms and results are clearly pointing to a severe case of pancreatitus.

Thanks for all the prayers. The hardest part for Bode right now is that the vet asked him not to work with clients (which he doesn't feel up to), however he can't be at the office because his separation anxiety from Tara causes him to want to be in the room with her and the clients instead of resting. The fear is related to the stress the clients processing could put on his already compromised system.

Hopefully when he goes back this week, we have good news. I can't wait to have my brother (and co-worker) back to his normal!

I will try to do better to keep you updated, however I have had to pick up a lot of the extra work at the office, so I am exhausted at the end of the day!

Love,

Abbey

Another first!

2012-01-03T21:13:00.003-05:00

I did it...I never thought I would do it, but I did it.....

I called off of work today! Yes, you read that right. Bode Moser has called off work for the first time in his almost six years of life. I just can't shake this uncomfortable feeling. It has been four days of my medicines and I thought I was feeling better, but this cold front made me just want to lay around. And by the way...I hate my medicines. Tara thinks she has tricked me, but I am on to her. She better have a new trick tomorrow or I am going to refuse to eat the whole meal.

Abbey shared what my diagnosis is, but I just am not feeling like myself. I now have a new understanding of what some of our clients talk about when they are "off". When you are "off", you just get nasty for no reason at all. I find myself barking at neighbors that aren't even doing anything, laying in the bedroom while the family is out playing together, and more. I want this to be over!!

Today my best doggie friend in the whole word came over...Baxter. He is here until Sunday as Tara's parents are gone. We played a little, but I think he realizes I am sick, so we also napped together and just hung out.

Tara came home and told me the clients were asking for me and I received lots of well wishes, but I just couldn't get myself together enough to go in. Even when I was sick before, I begged to go in and just sleep in the office, but this time is different. I am hurting and so uncomfortable all the time.

I even refused my homemade chicken and rice dinner tonight. I usually love Tara's home cooking (especially over my dog food) but I just couldn't eat it. She has to cook for me all week (as per the vet), but sometimes you just aren't hungry...especially when you are sick.

Ok...time to go lay by the fire before it goes out. Abbey or I will keep you updated on my progress. I go back to the doc on Saturday and should know more then!

Love all who read about us!

Bode

Happy New Year!

2012-01-02T21:21:00.001-05:00

Can you believe it is the 2nd of January in 2012 already? This is going to be a great year! Every year gets better and better so we cannot wait to see what 2012 brings! Both of our birthdays are coming up (Bode will be 6 and I will be 7).

Our new year didn't start off as well as we would have hoped. Bode had to be taken to the doctor on New Year's Eve. He was acting really strange and really didn't want to eat or play with anyone. Tara kept talking about her fear that it was bloat...I have learned we really don't want Bode to have this!

Tara and Bode were at the vet for a long time and I was home with our human brother and Geoff (who were both home sick too). We kept waiting for Tara to call with an update. When she did, we learned that Bode did not have bloat....thank God....but that he was in a lot of pain and really sick. He has pancreatitis and a strange parasite that we aren't sure how he got it. He is on three different medications and has to go back to the doctor on Saturday to be checked again. His fever has dropped and he doesn't seem to be dehydrated (he drinks a lot of water), so hopefully we are on the mend.

Bode snuggled in next to the fire

Tara and Bode have had some pretty big fights in the mornings and Bode is not good at taking his medication. I am sort of jealous because along with Bode being on medication, Tara has to cook for him. I heard that for seven whole days Bode gets to eat homemade chicken and rice to help his pancreas process because our regular food is too hard on him right now. When I smelled it cooking, I couldn't leave the kitchen. I hoped and prayed it was for me. I get that when I am sick too, but I am also thankful that I am not sick right now!

Chicklette (our foster sister) and I have to be checked tomorrow to be sure we don't have the worm too, but we don't feel sick like Bode. Apparently you only get it from laying in damp grass when it is warm outside. I love to do this, but no one else (especially Bode) lays out there. I really am puzzled at how he could have gotten this parasite thing and pray I don't have it!

Prayers for Bode's speedy recovery and an amazing 2012 for all of us!

Love,

Abbey

Think about this....

2011-12-31T19:42:00.002-05:00

Words we have been thinking but haven't been able to say...

http://makeadifferencerescue.wordpress.com/2011/04/13/so-youre-thinking-about-giving-up-your-pet-you-might-want-to-reconsider/

God Bless Us, Everyone!

2011-12-24T13:00:00.003-05:00

It's Christmas Eve! We are just awakening from our nap and can't wait for Santa to come tonight. We have a full house, so tomorrow should be fun.

There are two foster (dog) siblings with us and our family! We hope you are all settling in with your family and friends for your holiday traditions and remembering the reason we celebrate.

Tiny Tim (our foster brother) just got adopted, but is staying with us through Christmas since he has to finish rehab. He had a BIG surgery and was limping really bad. He is doing great and can run, play, and go for walks with us now. His new family has renamed him Tebow. He got the best gift....a forever home for Christmas!

We thought Chicklette was getting one too, but she did not! The family wasn't ready to make a commitment, so she will be with us a little longer. Maybe someone will want to adopt her for New Year's.

We think this is both of their first Christmas' as Tebow is only 10 months and Chicklette is 11-12 months.

Our human brother is finally understanding Christmas, so it has been fun watching that too....he gets some great toys that we all keep our eyes on!

Today it was in the 80's outside. Too hot for Christmas! This time last year we were packing up the car getting ready to go see snow for the first time. Today we talked about going to the beach....

Merry Christmas to all of our friends...canine and human alike!

With love,

Abbey and Bode

Not a normal Friday

2011-12-09T11:39:00.001-05:00

Friday mornings are usually one of our favorites. Tara stays home in the morning and we work at night with her. We usually run errands, play in the yard, practice our training, and get some fun time in with our human brother.

Today is not a normal Friday! We had a new foster brother last night. He was really nice and we both really liked him (so did Chicklette, our current foster sister). Tiny Tim arrived around dinner time and things started to seem different. Tara turned our room (AKA the laundry room) into a cozy area full of blankets and dog beds. She took out our beds and food bowls and put up a baby gate so we couldn't go in. That was the first time we knew something was up! We were locked out of our own room!

Dad got home soon after and he had Tiny Tim with him. They placed him in our room and we noticed he wasn't moving so well. We all got to greet him and the humans went in the room with him to cuddle. We heard Tara making plans for the morning and learned that Tiny Tim was going into surgery in the morning.

Early this morning, Tara and our human brother loaded Tiny Tim in the car and came back without him. We are wondering when he will come back! We didn't get to play with him, but got to see him and stay near him. We know something is wrong and wanted to give him comfort. We all don't seem to have the energy to do our normal Friday things. We are worried. Even Chicklette, who has more energy that most dogs! She is still a baby (11 months), but is also laying around with us. When the phone rings, we listen to see if Tara will say Tiny Tim's name, but not so far!

Tiny Tim has now been at the vet for over four hours. The vet said his leg and hip-ball-joint were in really bad condition and the surgery was going to be extensive. This could have all been prevented, but instead he was left to sit, untreated, in a kill shelter.

The phone just rang again, but it wasn't the vet....We will keep you updated! Please pray for Tiny Tim!
~~Abbey and Bode

Interviews...

2011-12-08T21:02:00.001-05:00

Our office is growing and this is causing Tara much stress. It is a good thing, but finding the right person is a hard task. Today we had some interviewing to do. Abbey and I were able to be a part of this.

Some of them went really well and have qualities that could work with the other amazing staff at our office...others, not so much! We did all we could to let Tara and Kayla (she helped with the interviews) to know our thoughts. This included first impressions and during interviews.

I surprised Tara at one point as I was able to "turn on" some of the skills I use during counseling sessions and let her know something wasn't right. I am not sure if the candidate was lying or if she was nervous about the question, but her energy and changes in her demeanor gave me all sorts of red flags! Abbey was not in during that time but gave her feelings before it started.

Let's hope we are able to finish these interviews and find the perfect new administrative assistant...especially one that Abbey and I are comfortable with!

~Bode

Cookie Exchange...

2011-12-06T21:34:00.001-05:00

We write this blog together. We love this time of year. There is a pretty tree inside...yes, inside of our house...we put lights and colorful things on it to make it even prettier! There are lots of people visiting, lot of songs being sung, and outside the houses all have extra friends in their yards. We are still trying to figure out which are real and which are not!

There are lots of parties. Most of which we don't get to go to! Last night there was a cookie party...do you know that there we no dog cookies here? We could smell so many delicious things...so many had peanut butter in them. Yum!!

Everyone was sharing about their businesses (Tara calls it networking) and we were enjoying the attention from our friends and meeting new friends. Most people knew us, but we didn't know them! We are celebrities...just kidding! Abbey hates when I say that!

I think we should propose a canine cookie exchange for next Christmas. Who is in?

The cookies Tara brought home...

With hunger,

Bode

I'm Forever....

2011-12-04T21:11:00.001-05:00

This picture could not sum up more! Tara was thrilled when she found it, as are we! We are so blessed to be in our forever home with never any doubt about "until". We have been through many ups and downs, but our place in this family has never been questioned. We hear a lot of people tell Tara their stories and they are sad, but didn't you know when you go a furry kid that we are forever? Would you get rid of your two legged kid just because you got married, had another child, moved, etc? No, you wouldn't...why are we any different? Our foster siblings often have stories like this and it's not their fault, yet their life was almost ended because of the "until" thinkers"

Speaking of "until" owners...that's what they are...they aren't family, they just own a pet like they own their car and other items. It's a different mentality than the family thinkers!

Tara was at a charity event last night and was soooo mad! They were auctioning off a puppy. Yes, you read that correctly. There were people walking around with a puppy attempting to get people to get ogle of her cuteness and bid.

We have seen what happens to a lot of these "impulse buy" puppies....that's right, they get fostered in homes like ours because they are told to find a new home when something new comes around....their family wants to travel more, have more kids, move, the new dog doesn't like them, etc.

Does this charity not know they are causing doom....or death? They do such great things for humans, but not puppies? Just because it was cute baby shih tzu and they "won" her, doesn't mean it is a good thing. Impulsively getting a dog is one of the worst things to do! They are all cute and adorable, but they grow up and they need attention and love and training and time...yup...time...oh and money, which they can't make themselves! We need your time! We need your money...we can't pay our own bills! We are not humans, but need to know how to live with you humans.

How does this "auction puppy" get a home...by someone wanting to flaunt their money and be the winning bidder. No one checks out their home; if they are going to gift the puppy to someone; if they take care of their current pets, etc. Just because someone has money doesn't make them a good dog owner.

We know the goal was to raise money to help others, but why at the cost of an animal? It is unethical and inhumane. Once the novelty of the "win" wears off, what is the "winner" going to do with a puppy that needs walked, fed, potty trained, obedience trained, spade, medical appointments, shots, micro-chipped, etc? Are living animals now equal to stuffed animals that are given away as prizes at fairs or carnivals?

I will get off my soap box, as Bode has gone to bed while I am writing this, but agrees with what I have said. Please do not support or encourage the auctioning off of animals and remember those same animals may turn up in your local rescue (which could use your help!).

We would love to read feedback on this and realize it may cause some difference of opinions, but let's save some lives!

Until next time....
~~Abbey

2011-12-02T10:41:00.001-05:00

another fitting article....as much as we want to be like you...we aren't! Just like toddlers need rules (we are learning this with our human brother)....so do we!

http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/articles/humandog.htm

2011-12-02T10:39:00.001-05:00

This is us! We hate to admit it, but life has caused us anxiety around these people...especially those with their dogs off leash or on a retractable leash.

http://jessdolce.tumblr.com/post/13560756717/my-dog-is-friendly-a-public-service-announcement?ref=nf

We have missed you...

2011-11-27T21:25:00.001-05:00

Have you missed us? We sure have missed you! Life can get ahead of us pretty quick and since we need help to type these, we are also dependent on Tara's schedule!

We are so thankful for all of you that read this and the amazing emails we get along with comments at events and the random comment here on the blog. Please continue to follow us and share our blog with others!

We now have our own email address! You can reach either of us or any of the therapy dogs at it: therapydogs@deltafamilycounseling.com. We prefer to communicate here though!

Let's recap since our last post...
It has been over two months. Wow! Again, sorry! Well our foster siblings have all been adopted and we are taking a week to regroup. Did you know that we have had a total of 19 foster siblings in three years? We are blessed to be able to keep in touch with several of their families and see them grow and learn.

We have had so many great events at our office and in the community where we are spreading the word on the benefits of dogs in the therapy room and in individual homes.

Over Thanksgiving, one of our canine co-therapists, Somer, and her new puppy sister Lexi stayed for a few days. That was really fun since we usually only get to see each other at the office.

Today we decorated the inside of the house for Christmas. It smells so good with that tree inside, but we are keeping our eye on it--you know, trees are supposed to stay outside, however this one usually has gifts under it for us at some point!

We are setting a weekly reminder (at a minimum) to have Tara update this blog. Talk with you soon!

Abbey and Bode!

Hijacked blog....

2011-09-17T13:14:00.001-04:00

Hi, it's Kelley...I "borrowed" the blog from Abbey and Bode to tell you more about me!

I have been living with Abbey and Bode for quite awhile. I am only 1, so I am still getting out of my "toddler" phase. I love, love, love to play!! Let's cuddle, wrestle, tug, and more!

There is a human kid my age at his house and we have so much fun together. I would love to go to a family that has more of those!

I don't know how to share a lot of my past and don't really want to as I have so much future in me now! I was rescued by Brooke's Legacy Animal Rescue. The shelter I was at had me on this list, which I have now learned meant I was going to die, and the wonderful people at Brooke's came to save me! They brought me back to Naples and found out I had these very bad bugs inside of me and that something was wrong with my front paw. I went right to the wonderful vet at Mission Hills Veterinary Clinic and they started by "bug" treatment. It was not a fun thing to go through and it took a lot of work to get all those bugs out! For 30 days I was not allowed to do very much (no walks, no playing, etc) because the bugs could attack my heart (they were heartworms) and then I could die. They checked my leg while I was there and learned that it was an injury I got a VERY long time ago. It doesn't bother me very much. I can still run, jump, and play; I just rest it when I can!

I came to this house two weeks into my 30 days of no play and began to learn the ropes! Abbey and Bode are working dogs. I didn't even know this was possible. I worked really hard to learn as much as I could because I wasn't allowed to play with them, so I would just watch. I showed Tara that I already knew some things. My previous owner didn't take care of me but taught me to sit, stay, and shake.

Since then, I have been working on my manners and learning to "work" too! This therapy thing is pretty need, but I get tired fast from the energy in the room.

I am a guard dog and will let you know if anyone is near your house that should not be there. I have a lot of loyalty to whoever loves me!

I don't like to share my food with other dogs, but if you are human, you can take it. Tara is working with me on this, but I just LOVE food!

Spread the word that I really want to find my forever family! I have been at this house for a long time. Don't get me wrong, it is great here, but it is not mine! My foster sister got adopted last week, so I hope my time is coming soon!

Ok, Abbey just caught me typing on here so I better go! Spread the word about me! Oh and I will be at some place called the Shell Factory tomorrow to meet new people for Wienerfest! Hope I am not the biggest dog there!

With Love~~Kelley

Teaching them young...

2011-09-15T22:05:00.003-04:00

There is so much hype about dogs and kids, especially babies, but you can teach them (human kids) how to interact with us so there are less "bad things" that could happen. We know not all dogs are like us, however it is possible to learn the signs and protect everyone!

Our humans went out of town without us last weekend....we can't fly on airplanes...and we heard them talking about some of the dogs they met. Our human brother has learned how to properly approach a dog and was praised by dog owners for knowing just how to greet a new dog.

He is not even two, but knows that not all dogs are as wonderful as we are :). I think the fact that we have so many foster dogs that come in and out of the house helps, as he has to learn how to greet them and learn their behaviors as they learn (most of them for the first time) what a toddler is.

With me, he knows I get more nervous when he is around me if I am tired or hungry, but Bode loves him being around all the time. Tara has taught him that he must ask or have her ask before he approaches a dog and can get close enough to pet (or as he says pat).

He always puts his hand out, palm up, where the dog can sniff it and if the dog shies away, he doesn't approach. He always approaches from the side and Tara keeps an eye on calming signals (stress signals) the dog may give off.

It is important to learn how to greet dogs properly and teach children---this is a part of every counseling series we offer, as we are not allowed in a session without the children first learning to interact with us!

Learning calming signals is also very important!

Let me know if you have any questions!

Abbey

Today we remember...

2011-09-11T22:04:00.002-04:00

There was a lot of anxiety felt today and we really didn't understand why. You see our human family went out of town for the weekend, so we got to stay with our grandparents. We could tell there was a lot of emotion going on with everyone around us, but we didn't quite understand why.

We now know that today is the 10 year anniversary of something horrible happening in our country. We weren't alive, but we can sense the emotion that, even 10 years later, all the humans that were alive felt.

We decided to do some research see what we could learn about other dogs that were involved in the rescue efforts and found the following links to share with you:

The resiliency of the rescue dogs is shown int his article: http://news.vin.com/VINNews.aspx?articleId=19754

Dog therapy used at "Ground Zero" (see, it's not a new concept at all!): http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111903285704576560843680243976.html

Kinsey's experience: http://www.founddogs.com/view_story.php?sid=9

Take time to read these articles as they show another view of help some working dogs provided to those in the depths of this horrible event!

We are breathing easier as Tara and the rest of the family flew safely home today and we are all snuggled up together for bed. Their flight was delayed, but that was all! We had no problem waiting an extra hour for them, we are just so happy they made it home safely!

With love,

Abbey and Bode

2011-09-05T12:11:00.004-04:00

We keep hearing clients, our family, and others talking about September 11, 2011. We weren't born yet, so we did not personally experience this horrific event, however we have recently come across a story of a fellow canine who was involved in helping many people. Check out her story!

The Unsung "heros" of September 11th

Did you see this?

2011-08-28T21:16:00.000-04:00

Loyalty goes a long way!

We love this picture! It shows how much love there is between us furry folks and you, humans! Check it out!

A sample of what we do....

2011-08-19T20:49:00.000-04:00

It has taken me some time to really gather my thoughts to write this blog post. Tara puts a lot of effort into training us, but our focus is on children and individually. On Tuesday I got to try something new: I taught a public workshop! "The Whispered Word of Suicide" was present by Tara and I to a group of Stephen Ministers at a local church. I must add that I had no idea we were doing this. I am sure Tara told me, but I was not paying attention---don't tell her but I do that a lot! I had been at work with her most of the day and slept in the work room for the last two clients, so I thought we were going home, but we didn't!

When we got there, we were able to get set up. I sniffed around and greeted the people in the room. I was a little unsure of the different floors we walked on as they changed as we walked through the building to get to our room, but I was more than happy to see carpet that I knew in the room we were teaching in. Tara carried one of my beds in and told me to go on "place". It was hard to listen because other people kept saying "Abbey come".

As 6:30 rolled around the meeting started. They were talking about some church things, prayers, praise, etc. I decided to sit on Tara's lap and just listened. All of a sudden this woman walked in and I just knew something was wrong. I kept trying to tell Tara but she wasn't getting it and was telling me I was being rude and to calm down so they could continue their meeting. I don't usually have a leash on and forgot that I was wearing one and Tara pulled me back. I kept tagging her and telling her that I HAD to go see this lady. Finally the lady started to cry and I gave Tara the "I told you so look". I could tell Tara was surprised, but she still wouldn't let me get to her.

I don't really know what was said, but the lady started to cry harder and everyone, except for Tara because she made me sit with her, got up and started praying for the woman. Once everything calmed down, we were introduced and I went and sat with the woman who was crying. Tara talked for a minute about my job in counseling sessions and how I gave her the signals something was wrong, even before it was disclosed.

Once I knew that lady was ok, I walked around the room to get a good read on everyone. A very nice man in the front took of my leash and I then went fully into "work" mode. I visited with a couple of people who were struggling with hearing Tara talk so easily about suicide. She does talk about it with ease, but after all, that is the point of her presentation. If we don't talk about it, then how are we going to save lives?

After the more intense portion of the workshop, I started to focus on the door and window. I chased a lizard that was outside and listened to the people outside the door who were talking. People thought I had to go potty, but Tara knew better. She told them it was because of the lizard and people talking, but I took on too much emotion and was ready to call it quits. I finally went and laid down, but made sure Tara knew I reached my limit and could not visit with anyone any longer.

Many people do not realize that in our work, we don't have to know what people are saying, we take on the energy of the emotions. I slept good that night and know that I helped the one lady and probably others in the room.

Tara praised me like crazy when we got outside and I got some special attention from her. I was so excited to come home and tell Bode about it, but he was sad he didn't get to go too.

I love what I do and I am so glad to share it with you too!

Off to bed....
Abbey

We rescued Tara...

2011-08-16T15:06:00.000-04:00

Abbey and I were shown this by a friend and it is so true! Did you know that we are both rescues? Well in reality, we rescued Tara :)

Her eyes met mine as she walked down the corridor,
peering apprehensively into the kennels.
I felt her need instantly and knew I had to help her.
I wagged my tail, not too exuberantly,
so she wouldn’t be afraid.

As she stopped at my kennel,
I blocked her view from a little accident I
had in the back of my cage.
I didn’t want her to know that I hadn’t been
walked today.
Sometimes the shelter keepers get busy
and I didn’t want her to
think poorly of them.

As she read my kennel card,
I hoped that she wouldn’t feel sad about my past.
I only have the future to look forward to,
and want to make a difference in someone’s life.
She got down on her knees and made little kissy sounds at me.
I shoved my shoulder and side of my head up against
the bars to comfort her.

Gentle fingertips caressed my neck;
she was desperate for companionship.
A tear fell down her cheek,
and I raised my paw to assure her that all would be well.

Soon my kennel door opened and her smile was so bright
that I Instantly jumped into her arms.
I would promise to keep her safe.
I would promise to always be by her side.
I would promise to do everything I could to see
that radiant smile and sparkle in her eyes.

I was so fortunate that she came down my corridor.
So many more are out there who haven’t walked the corridors.
So many more to be saved.
At least I could save one.

I rescued a human today…

I caught her...

2011-08-15T13:15:00.000-04:00

Abbey loves to steal our human brother's car seat after we take him to school or before we pick him up. It always makes Tara laugh and she tells Abbey that she is such a "Drama Queen". Here she is proving she is queen!

She (Abbey) is always complaining that she can't see anything because she is so little. Sitting in the seat, she gets the same view I do from the car. Abbey, being the people watcher that she is, must know what is going on in the world around her! Surprises make her anxiety increase and this way she can easily keep track of life.

Do you feel like you have to always know what is going on? Does your anxiety grow when you can't see what is going to happen next? Some stress and anxiety management tools may help you! Abbey is learning some herself and finding ways to cope with her anxiety in life!

Until next time...

Bode

A day in our life...

2011-08-11T20:10:00.000-04:00

so, we have decided to share with you a typical day (if there is such a thing) in our life!

-6:30-7am: Hear our human brother wake up and pretend we are still asleep

-7:30am: Reluctantly go outside as fast as we can and come back in where Bode attempts to go back to sleep and Abbey takes a seat on her couch to keep an eye on the neighborhood

-8am: Hear Tara fill our bowl, walk out to make sure it is enough food. Abbey eats, Bode decides to graze throughout the day

-8:45am: Get our work "clothes" on and pack up the car

-9am: Take our human brother to school and say hi to all the other families in the parking lot

-9-9:30am: Arrive at the office, take a walk around the inside and outside to make sure nothing has changed since we were last there. Bode finds bunny and ensures he knows where it is and no one has touched it. Abbey claims the large dog bed in the work room.

-9:45am: Remind Tara that we know where she keeps both treats (the good ones from Pawsotively Purrfect are in the fridge and the "others" are in the big playroom)

-10-5ish: clients, clients, and more clients...our favorite!! We go out and play in the yard a few times; play tag with each other; run around with the the other therapy dogs; drink water and nap

-5pm: Return to the school to pick up the little human and again, greet everyone we can see! We get so excited when he gets in the car and tells us hello!

-5:30pm: Home and run around the yard with the family, play inside, walk, nap...so many things to do!

-6:30pm: Here comes dinner!! We are ready this time and eat it all then off we go to play in the yard.

8pm sharp: We put ourselves to bed! Abbey sneaks into the closet and pulls down clothes to make a bed on her bed. Bode sprawls out across the king size bed and attempts to claim it without sharing!

Sometime after that, Tara attempts to relocate us (and our foster sisters). She claims that beds are for humans, but we think that we should all take turns on the floor, dog beds, and that huge, cozy, king sized cloud...I mean bed!

That is our life...most of the days vary in times as there are some mornings Tara makes us get up early or we go in later because we stay at the office until late (bed time) in the evening!

It is now 10 minutes past our self prescribed bed time...good night world!

Love Abbey and Bode!

Our Foster Sisters....

2011-08-11T19:51:00.000-04:00

We have not been keeping up with this blog as we have two foster sisters from Brooke's Legacy Animal Rescue and they keep us so busy!

Please spread the word about Kelley and Dulce!

Help save a life!

2011-07-31T07:56:00.000-04:00

It has been brought to our attention through one of Tara's animal assisted play therapy groups, that there are some dogs up in Michigan that are going to be put down and it's just not right!

Another blogger has posted the story and the videos that were used in court for the judge's ruling. We wonder what your thoughts are on this. We wish we could save this dog! http://yesbiscuit.wordpress.com/2011/07/26/court-orders-killing-of-michigan-shelter-dog/

You can sign the petition here: http://www.change.org/petitions/katherine-houpt-vmd-phd-recant-testimony

Please spread the word and help save lives! The behavior we see here is not aggressive, rather a very friendly pup who wants to play and be around people and other dogs!

We have missed you!

2011-05-25T14:17:00.000-04:00

Abbey and Bode here..yes we are back! Sorry for the delay in updating you on happenings with us and the practice, but time escaped us! Abbey is finally feeling better and no longer sick. What a relief as it was scary for both of us! She still can't eat everything, but has learned what she needs to avoid.

We have been busy getting used to sharing the clients and Bode is catching up on some much needed rest. Bode wasn't so happy to have one of his clients chose Abbey over him in a session last week and Liz (one of the human counselors at the practice) caught a photo of it but it won't load right now to the blog!

We have had lots of foster dogs here the past month. Zoey was adopted, then we went to pick up Priscilla and she got adopted, Max was with us for a few hours and got adopted, then Cam was here for a week and now we have Connor who has been here almost two weeks. We are so happy they are all finding forever homes but really like getting to know them and showing them our training. None of them have understood "work" and get confused at our excitement in going. We forget to help them when we are at the office. When we go into work mode, that is all we think about!

We will try to do better and updating this!

Abbey and Bode!

Getting your "angries out"

2011-04-20T21:26:00.000-04:00

It is ok to get angry, but it is not ok to hurt someone else with words or touch when you are angry! Today a client and I practiced getting our "angries out" and she taught me how to use the bop bag to do so. It was so fun! I was smiling and wagging my tail.

I bet you are wondering what could make me angry. Well for starters, sometimes it is just a bad day and the little things get to me. Other days, like today, I get angry because Abbey is sick and I don't know what to do to help her. I know I shouldn't get angry, but it is frustrating. I love my sister so much but I don't know how to help! Tara and I had to run to the vet in between clients to pick up more medicine to try for Abbey as she yet again relapsed. I heard Tara tell the vet that it is every 7-10 days. They are hoping this medicine works, because if it doesn't they have to do something Tara called "invasive tests".

It was a long day as I had five clients all by myself...well with Tara there too as Abbey is on sick leave again!

Night, night....

Bode

From our Aunt Ezzie...

2011-04-08T12:36:00.003-04:00

Love, laugh, sing, play.
If you want to heal your mind,
do these things every day,
and there will be very little left to heal.

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE PETS, THIS IS A TRUE STORY.

FOR THOSE THAT DON'T, YOU NEED A PET TO LOVE~

The following was found posted very low on a refrigerator door.

Dear Dogs and Cats:

The dishes with the paw prints are yours and contain your food.

The other dishes are mine and contain my food.. Placing a paw print in the middle of my plate and food does not stake a claim for it becoming your food and dish, nor do I find that aesthetically pleasing in the slightest.

The stairway was not designed by NASCAR and is not a racetrack. Racing me to the bottom is not the object. Tripping me doesn't help because I fall faster than you can run.

I cannot buy anything bigger than a king sized bed. I am very sorry about this. Do not think I will continue sleeping on the couch to ensure your comfort, however. Dogs and cats can actually curl up in a ball when they sleep. It is not necessary to sleep perpendicular to each other, stretched out to the fullest extent possible. I also know that sticking tails straight out and having tongues hanging out on the other end to maximize space is nothing but sarcasm..

For the last time, there is no secret exit from the bathroom! If, by some miracle, I beat you there and manage to get the door shut, it is not necessary to claw, whine, meow, try to turn the knob or get your paw under the edge in an attempt to open the door. I must exit through the same door I entered. Also, I have been using the bathroom for years - canine/feline attendance is not required.

The proper order for kissing is: Kiss me first, then go smell the other dog or cat's butt. I cannot stress this enough.

Finally, in fairness, dear pets, I have posted the following message on the front door:

TO ALL NON-PET OWNERS WHO VISIT AND LIKE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR PETS:

(1) They live here. You don't.
(2) If you don't want their hair on your clothes, stay off the furniture. That's why they call it 'fur'-niture.
(3) I like my pets a lot better than I like most people.
(4) To you, they are animals. To me, they are adopted sons/daughters who are short, hairy, walk on all fours and don't speak clearly.

Remember, dogs and cats are better than kids because they:

(1)   eat less,
(2)   don't ask for money all the time,
(3)   are easier to train,
(4)   normally come when called,
(5)   never ask to drive the car,
(6)   don't smoke or drink,
(7)   don't want to wear your clothes,
(8)   don't have to buy the latest fashions,
(9)   don't need a gazillion dollars for college and
(10)  if they get pregnant, you can sell their children

The new grandbaby....grandpuppies!

2011-04-05T21:24:00.001-04:00

http://www.cnn.com/2011/LIVING/04/04/grandpuppy.granddog.family/index.html?hpt=Sbin

Abbey's Birthday Celebration....

2011-04-04T21:11:00.000-04:00

Well, again, we fall behind on our blog. Thursday was Abbey's sixth birthday, but she ended up getting really sick again and Tara took her back to the vet. We saw all the yummy birthday goodies Tara bought at the Dog Bakery, however the vet said Abbey was on a restricted diet, so Zoey and I had to wait too!

Today we sang Happy Birthday and got our yummy treats! Zoey had never had one and was so excited to get a peanut butter paw with frosting on it. I got one that looked like a birthday cupcake with lots of frosting and sprinkles and Abbey got a carob brownie since she isn't supposed to have wheat right now.

A dog and his baby....

2011-04-04T15:18:00.002-04:00

Check out this amazing four legged friend! We love our human baby and would do the same; not all dogs want to hurt children...many of us want to protect!

http://www.nbc-2.com/story/14379755/2011/04/04/family-dog-guards-missing-toddler-in-the-woods-overnight

Abbey received the all clear!

2011-03-24T20:31:00.000-04:00

Bode here...again! Let's hope Abbey feels like writing again soon! Here we are at work yesterday...we cuddled together while we waited for clients!

After work today, Tara took her back for a follow-up appointment with Dr. Monte. Abbey was so scared that she told me she kept trying to find a way out of the waiting room. I heard Tara say that she was hiding under chairs and shaking.

They took her blood again and found that her temperature was finally gone. After what Abbey said was a LONG wait, they came back and said everything is back to normal range and no more medicine for her!

Tara asked if they could put a name to what Abbey had and the doctor shared that it was an infection of her bili-system that caused her white blood cell and bilirubin counts to go so high and the fever to struggle to fight it off. She finally said it was some sort of rare, non-contagious form of hepatitis. I am so glad to have my sister back to being healthy!

Good night and sleep tight...I will tell Abbey to write soon!

Bode

Thinking of our friends in Japan....

2011-03-23T13:31:00.003-04:00

The Playful Pooch shared this, so we are doing the same!

Please continue to pray for all (human, canine, etc) who have been affected in Japan!

http://lovemeow.com/2011/03/23-photos-of-dogs-and-owners-sticking-together-after-devastating-earthquake-and-tsunami/

Thinking of our friends in Japan....

2011-03-23T13:31:00.001-04:00

Amazing....

2011-03-16T21:02:00.001-04:00

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/42110347#42110347

What a powerful message!

An update on Abbey...

2011-03-12T20:50:00.000-05:00

Sorry for the delay in updating you on Abbey....

She came home Wednesday night, but it was a long rough night. I got home from work and she was already here and was sitting in the laundry room shaking. She let me say hi to her, but then she let me know to give her space. She wanted Tara to sit with her for awhile, so we all let them have their space.

I heard Tara say that Abbey has a lot of medicine to take and that they still were not sure what was wrong. Abbey was so nervous she had trouble holding her bladder. Tara convinced her to come sleep in the bedroom with the rest of us, but I don't think she slept much. She whined and moaned all night and didn't want anyone near her.

Thursday morning she was not moving around much and did not want to eat or go outside. Tara took us both to work, but I had to see all the clients because Abbey was just there so we could keep an eye on her. She laid on the dog bed at the office and really didn't move the whole time we were there. She didn't want to eat, drink, or go outside.

Tara then took her back to the vet and she came home feeling a little better. They think she had a reaction to her medicine. I heard Tara say that Abbey's blood work looked better, so that was good. Her temperature was still a little high, but not worrisome. The vet said Abbey had to come back if she still didn't eat or move around much.

Jenn (the nanny) told Tara that Abbey wasn't moving around much Friday, and honestly, she wasn't. She was better by the time Tara got home, so they talked to the vet and agreed to wait before going back.

Today Abbey is eating and actually barked (for the first time all week) at someone outside. She isn't herself, but getting there!

Tara and Abbey said to thank everyone for the calls and emails.

Hopefully the medication will continue to work and our next update will be from Abbey when she is feeling like herself!

Off to bed....
Bode

Abbey is in the hospital

2011-03-09T10:06:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was a hard day at our house. Abbey was hospitalized and she is still there. I am not really understanding all this, but trying to. Here is what I know...

Sunday night Abbey was up most of the night sick at her stomach. Monday morning she still wasn't feeling great but then just seemed tired through the day. Monday night she got very, very sick and Tara took her to the vet yesterday morning.

Tara came home without Abbey but had her leash, so I got really scared. I didn't eat all day and just kept listening to what was going on. I miss my sister! I worked with Tara by myself, but the clients seemed to be able to tell I wasn't myself. They kept asking "where is Abbey?"

I heard Tara tell the kids that Abbey was very sick and was at the doggie hospital where she was being given really good care so she could get better and come back to work soon.

Tara said that Abbey had a fever of almost 105 and that her white blood cell count and something called a bilirubin were really high.

When we got home from work, I was so tired that I went to bed and Zoey (our foster sister) came to sleep with me too.

This morning we were all up early waiting for the vet to call. I cuddled close to Tara all night as I really missed my sister. Zoey was all over the place and restless. Thankfully the baby slept all night! The vet called a little after 8am and said Abbey was doing a little better but not "in the clear and not close to 100%". Her temperature came down slightly to 102.5.

Abbey's Red Sox blanket was on the couch when Tara left a little while ago and now it's gone too. I heard that Abbey has it at the hospital with her. That should make her comfortable, she loves that blanket! Tara said she saw Abbey and that Abbey ate a little bit when she saw her, but she was scared and very warm to the touch. She still has her IV in and the nurses were taking good care of her. Abbey is so nervous all the time that I bet she is scared!

Tara wasn't gone long and said Abbey was crying while she was there. I think Abbey was crying because she wants to come home and doesn't understand why she can't. I can smell Abbey on Tara's blue jeans and so can Zoey. We are staying close waiting to hear what is next.

I wish I could tell time...I hear that the vet is supposed to call around 3pm again....

I better rest up since I get to work with all of tonight's clients!

Bode

Our next learning curve?

2011-02-22T13:23:00.001-05:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9Fyey4D5hg

Happy Valentine's Day!

2011-02-14T11:35:00.000-05:00

Wishing everyone a Happy Valentine's Day! Remember it is about spreading love to all you know, not just a significant other/spouse. Don't forget about friends and family! As Shakespeare said, "If music be the food of love, play on."

Dogs Trust Vintage: 4 ways to improve your relationship

Happy 5th Birthday, Bode!

2011-02-03T07:19:00.000-05:00

Bode turned 5 on Tuesday! Even though it was his birthday, he insisted on going to work with Tara and I, so we celebrated at work and when we got home! Here he is the day he came home and now.

At work, the clients loved singing to him and one made him a birthday crown to wear. I posted a picture below. It says "Bode I <3 U!"

When we got home, we got the yummy goodies from the dog bakery and then we were exhausted. I can't wait...my birthday is next!

Bode says thank you for all the Facebook birthday messages!

With love,

Abbey

Mentors

2011-01-30T20:58:00.000-05:00

Having someone to lean on is so important. You can have mentors in each aspect of your life or one for everything you do. This week we had some ups and downs and were thankful when Tara decided to call one of her mentors, Jill. Tara usually has the right idea, but gets such support by hearing validation for what she is doing from Jill.

Bode and I are not sure who we consider our mentors. Tara has another Play Therapist that specializes and educates in pet-assisted therapy, so we probably would pick her and her dogs. Rise Van Fleet is so knowledgeable and experienced with what dogs can accomplish in many ways, but most importantly in the therapy room.

Who is your mentor? We would love to see some posts here about our followers and your mentors!

Onwards to a great week!

Abbey

Priorities....How do you set them?

2011-01-24T21:02:00.000-05:00

Today my priority was to sleep, as was most of us in the house, but Bode and I are the only ones that succeeded. The baby is, as Tara says, "cutting teeth". I, as a dog, do not understand that but see him biting more things. I guess human babies aren't born with teeth.

Anyhow, now that I am well rested, I thought we should talk about family priorities. These come up often in sessions, more so lately. Who decides and who should decide do not always match up! Should the kids be involved (what about the dogs?)? I say yes (to both) and Tara agrees!

Sitting down as a family for a planned meeting to prioritize needs is helpful to a successful family schedule. Are family meals a part of your schedule? What about family fun or game nights? These should take precedence over anything else....after all, the family that plays together, stays together!

Are adult and child sports or extra-curricular activities taken into consideration? Are you making your child play soccer because you did (do) or do they really want to? Have you thought about volunteering or attending community events together? Does everyone agree? Is saving money a priority? What are you saving for? How can everyone in the family be involved?

Do you notice a theme? Communication is key! Ultimately the parents are in charge, however by including the children, you can't help but have success by making them feel included!

In our house, there are many trips and places that Tara goes that we cannot go, but she always makes up for it by ensuring we take a trip we can attend. Sometimes this is just to the bank or like our December vacation, to North Carolina as a family!

I hope you take time to set your family priorities...make it your priority!

Abbey

An article to share...

2011-01-11T21:16:00.002-05:00

Thank you to Rise Van Fleet from The Playful Pooch for sharing this article today: http://www.thebark.com/content/laughing-dogs

It's not about your rights....

2011-01-10T21:21:00.000-05:00

It's been on my mind for awhile and I haven't had time to sit down and write about it, but here it goes....

Bode and I hear a lot of the phone calls and parent meetings Tara has and there is often a theme that bothers us. Parent's often think it is their right in a custody situation to see their child, but the truth is that is has nothing to do with them. Do they not realize that it is the children who are hurting and the children who have a right to see both parents?

Let me explain with an example. A parent vents to Tara that they don't like the new love interest of the other parent, therefore they are restricting visitation time with the children as a punishment to the other parent. The children are the ones being punished, not the adults. The adult who isn't seeing the child(ren) may feel punished, but ultimately it is the children who are losing out on valuable time with both parents.

In the eyes of the court (based on trainings Tara has attended), the children have rights to see both parents unless there is risk or evidence of abuse (emotional, physical, or sexual) or neglect. Parents need to put aside their lack of ability to have a relationship with one another and focus on the fact that no matter what, they have a child(ren) together.

Here are some rights Bode and I came up with (at least through our eyes). We know there is more, but these stand out to us:

*Children have the right to see both parents without being subjected to arguing.
*Children have a right to know and have a relationship with both of their parents.
*Children have a right to be a kid and not know all the adult information (this includes court information)
*Children have a right to be free from hearing others talk badly about either parent.
*Children have a right to have their parents attend school or extra curricular events without causing a scene or putting the child in a position to chose one side or the other.

Can you think of other rights children have?

I can think of many, but for now I will call it a night!
~~Abbey

Sometimes there is negatives about us pups!

2011-01-04T22:01:00.000-05:00

Tara saw this article today and is not happy....neither are we!

Fido's No Doctor....

It is one thing to report research, but one must be responsible and post reliable and valid research that has appropriate measurements for what they are reporting. There are so many articles that show the positive results of canine companionship and word in therapy.

We may seem biased, but we know we are making a difference in the lives of our clients. We shared this article with some friends and here are some responses we received.

"For myself, the animal human bond is about quality of life and that's not so easily measured. In my case, it's how I feel when I go home at night and my dog greets me with a huge smile. And how I feel when I've settled down for the night and hear his big "I'm drifting off to sleep now" sigh. To me that's as close to heaven as I can come in this life. I know that without my dog, I am a sadder, less effective person, so the research can say what it wants! If it doesn't agree with me, oh well, guess I'm just an outlier then!

LOL (A very happy outlier)"

"This author needs to read a book on the scientific research of the healing powers of canines. I recommend "Made for Each Other" by Olmert.

"The look on a child's face when they come into the therapy office and there are not any dogs is saddening; however when they come in and find a wagging tail, you can see how much it eases the anxiety of anything they are going to process in the therapy session."

Saying thanks again and again....

2011-01-03T14:49:00.000-05:00

Do you remember to say thank you when someone surprises you? We do! We love getting packages in the mail and our friend at NASW sends us goodies every now and then. We have never met her, but she celebrates our work with us by sending yummy treats! In this picture, we are sitting and waiting for Tara to open the package so we can try some. They were delicious!!!

We have had a week and a half off work and ready to get back! We start back tomorrow and can't wait to work with all of our clients and hear about their Christmas and New Year's.

Thank you for following our blog!

Abbey and Bode!

Happy New Year!!!

2011-01-02T10:49:00.000-05:00

Getting cuddly by the fire

Welcome to 2011! Are you as excited as we are? There are so many things to be thankful for and to be excited for in the next year.

We ended 2010 with a new adventure...we saw snow! We (the whole family) drove to North Carolina and got snowed in. We didn't know what that meant until Tara tried to take us outside to go potty and we learned there was this white stuff (snow) all over the ground that was cold and sticky. Even when you come inside, you fight for a place by the fire to warm up! It was so high that Abbey had to walk in shoveled areas and when Bode went into the snow, it came almost up to his belly.

Bode running after the sled

Abbey not sure about leaving the porch

Bode playing football in the snow

We are back in Florida now and warmed up to the point that we were able to do one of our favorite things this weekend: Sunbathe in the yard! Our time in the yard allowed us to reflect on our goals for this year. We keep hearing Tara talk about resolutions, but we prefer the word goals. We will share them later this week. Until then, here are some pictures of us in the North Carolina snow storm.

Another great article!

2010-12-22T13:00:00.002-05:00

Check out this article of more dogs doing great things in their communities! We love WORK!!

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703886904576031521407391768.html

We would love to do this....

2010-12-17T12:13:00.001-05:00

Have you seen the rest stories on therapy dogs helping college students study for exams? How fun would that be? Even better, we could help the children study for their FCAT and relieve anxieties. Alright, SWFL. call us to get this started at your school!

http://www.peoplepets.com/news/dogs/therapy-dogs-give-stressed-tufts-university-students-a-study-break/1

Shep makes a guest appearance....

2010-12-15T22:51:00.000-05:00

We have asked our fellow canine therapists to make appearances here on the blog. Shep is the first to do so. He is currently in training and has only worked two days in the office.

Here is what Shep has to say:

"On Monday, December 13th, I, a German Shepard Dachshund mix, took my first steps towards becoming a therapy dog at Delta Family Counseling. I enjoyed meeting Buster, another therapy dog at the office that works (and lives) with Julie, and several clients.

I recently became certified as a P.A.W.S. (Pets Are Working Saints) Ministry Pet and began visiting a local nursing home once a month. I get plenty of attention at the nursing home, but as a therapy dog I find I am freer to be myself and can lose the leash! I found the play environment exciting and enjoyed interacting with clients."

Today, Abbey and Shep worked with clients and she approved of this young pup starting his mental health career!

Onward we go....six tails a wagging at Delta Family Counseling!!

We look forward to introducing you to our other canine co-therapists!

Abbey and Bode

It was 34 degrees in SW Florida this morning!!!!

2010-12-14T14:04:00.000-05:00

Burrr!! We cannot seem to get out from under these blankets and are staying cuddled together. Work is hard to go to because we get so cold so fast. Are you staying warm where you are? What are some of your favorite things to do when it is cold outside? Last night we sat by the fire with our blankets and it was so nice!

Tara told us we are like bears who hibernate for winter to stay warm. Maybe we should look into that!

Back to the blankets....
Abbey and Bode

Hiding places...

2010-12-12T00:03:00.000-05:00

As the hustle and bustle of the holidays continue, we find ourselves needing a time out at times. Do you give yourself a timeout or say "no" to the many things asked of you? Saying "no" can be difficult but necessary!

We are learning more and more of our limits in life and in working with our clients, however we find that even Tara has a hard time with this concept. In fact, she is up helping me (Abbey) write this right now and it is way past when we should be in bed!

I have a favorite hiding place at the office and sometimes share it with the clients. It is the tent we have where the baby dolls sleep. There is even a flap that can be put down and you can be completely out of sight! Last week I had a couple of days that I was in there and was able to show the clients my need for the flap to be closed.

At home, I have my bed that is in Bode and I's room, or if I really need a break, I also can go under the guest bed! When I am in either of these places, everyone in the house knows it is my way of giving myself a timeout!

Taking just a few minutes or a few hours to rest and break away, we can rejuvenate ourselves.

Where do you hide? Let's talk about it!

With love,
Abbey

Brrr....It sure is cold outside!

2010-12-08T13:39:00.000-05:00

Yes, I know we live in SW Florida, but this is way too cold! Last night at work and again this morning it was too cold for me! Believe it or not, the temperatures were in the 30s this morning! Abbey has thicker fur than I do, but she was even cold!

We had some of the best clients last night that helped us help them. The cold weather brought out some snuggle time for us with our clients and it helped them just talk....I don't think they realized it helped us stay warm! I was so cold that I didn't even want to get off the couch in the playroom to greet clients, I just waited for them to come back to the room to get started! Thankfully Tara let me borrow a sweatshirt (it was still a little tight, but it sure kept me warm)!

Today we are well rested and I have "my" sweatshirt by the door ready to go see more clients. I hope we can stay nice and warm again.

Here is another picture a client took of me when she thought I needed the hood from the hoodie on....

Until next time...
Bode

Smiling floppy ear to floppy ear...

2010-12-06T23:08:00.000-05:00

It is freezing here in Southwest Florida, but we just were checking some email with Tara and learned some great news that warmed our heart. Our blog (yes, this one) has been chosen as a featured blog by TeachStreet!

Someone recommended us and we just can't stop smiling!

We know we haven't been the best at keeping this updated, but promise to do much better now! We are going to talk tonight about some of the great things that have been happening and share with you very soon!

Until then, we are going to try to stay warm so we are refreshed for work tomorrow!

Tail wags,

Abbey and Bode

More healing from dogs!

2010-12-06T22:36:00.002-05:00

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,2030897,00.html

Support on mourning a pet...

2010-11-10T21:03:00.002-05:00

http://www.linkedin.com/news?viewArticle=&articleID=248102079&gid=2898861&type=member&item=34636134&articleURL=http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/11/06/on-mourning-the-death-of-a-pet/&urlhash=N_SY&goback=.gde_2898861_member_34636134

I'm not the biggest!!!

2010-11-09T13:37:00.000-05:00

Hi! It's Bode...just checking in as we haven't in awhile and we are home for lunch. Tara's brother shared this link with us and I am so happy to learn that I am no longer the biggest therapy dog!

Read about Honey and I will chat with Abbey about doing better at blogging. Hope to be back on soon!

http://bighoneydog.com/

Tail wags...

Bode

Awww....heart breaking....

2010-10-07T22:21:00.002-04:00

http://www.resteddoginn.ca/famous.php

Open House...

2010-10-07T22:21:00.000-04:00

Tonight was the annual Delta Family Counseling Open House. We are exhausted and Abbey is limping (again). Looks like tomorrow may be another chiropractor appointment for her. We had close to 50 people come by and celebrate the license of two of the therapists that work with us, meet the new staff, and experience our expansion. More to come later!

Sleepytime

2010-09-22T20:48:00.000-04:00

It has been an exhausting few days. The baby and I took a nap together this morning while the adults were getting ready for work and Abbey rested. Abbey has just not been feeling well and does not know why...not to mention we had house guests for the weekend. Rascal and Baxter were here and we played and played. I kept them as busy as I could so that they would leave Abbey alone.

I know I said I would update this blog, but I have not had time and apologize! I am just stopping by today to give you an update on Abbey. She continues to take her medicine, but seems to know when it wears off and can only take it every 12 hours. I heard Tara say that she is taking Abbey to the chiropractor tomorrow. Tara seems nervous, but I know she goes to the chiropractor, so I don't know why Abbey going would make her nervous. Hopefully it will help Abbey feel better so that she can play again.

Yesterday I was SOOO tired. I worked Abbey's clients and mine, which is WAY more than I have ever done in one day. Abbey cried and tried to sneak out for the babysitter. She doesn't understand why she can't go in. I can't wait for her to be back. There are too many clients for me to work with them all by myself.

Time for bed!
~Bode

Sick Leave...

2010-09-18T23:01:00.000-04:00

Bode here...

I know it i has been awhile since we updated our blog and we have lots to share! I will start working on that soon. Abbey has been ordered to sick leave by the doctor as she has a pinched nerve/slipped disc in here neck. She is not understanding this, but knows she doesn't feel well. She got some medicine to help today and it seems to be working, as she is finally eating and drinking again.

Looks like I will be the one in the office a lot these next three weeks until Abbey makes a full recovery. She is already fighting this and mad about not being able to work with our clients, but she is not allowed to jump up or get excited or even walk too much! I heard Tara say she may let Abbey work with a teenager or two, as long as she just sits there.

Pray for all of us these next three weeks, as an Abbey who doesn't get to work is a Crabby Abbey!!

Hope to be back soon with more updates....Bode

Some fellow canines doing some funny things...

2010-08-28T19:58:00.001-04:00

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=1138430581637

Lazy days...

2010-08-01T15:39:00.000-04:00

Do you ever wish for a lazy day where you can cuddle up with someone you love? We do and often times make it happen! Tara finally got a good picture of us taking a nap together! Enjoy your Sunday!

Doctor, Doctor...

2010-08-01T15:36:00.000-04:00

Last week I played doctor in a session...but I really wasn't in to it! It was a great learning experience for our intern, Michelle to watch. Very rarely do I get upset during a session or fearful, but it happened. I was telling the child to give me space and she wouldn't listen, so finally Tara gave me a break and our other intern, Heather, saved me by letting me hang out in an empty therapy room with her!

Here's what happened...I was following the lead of the client, like I always do! We played hide and seek (I love that game) and we played with the dress up clothes and kitchen, but then she wanted to play doctor. She made me the doctor and I don't know what to do as the doctor, so I sat there. It was fun for a few minutes, but she kept touching my ears with the stethoscope and it scared me!! Tara gave her directives to give me space and I easily communicated to Tara what I was feeling and she understood.

We tried lots of boundary lessons, but they were not working. I really like all my clients, but sometimes I don't like the games! After I left, I heard Tara and the client talking about giving people space and how sometimes we don't agree with the boundaries people set, but they are there for a reason.

I hope to play with this client again, but with a clear understanding of how to be around a dog...after all...that is what I am!

Another dog friendly website...

2010-07-22T18:09:00.000-04:00

Tara just showed us this page. She taught a class at the local college and learned of this site from the lady that was helping her get her results on what her students thought of you. Isn't it amazing how people meet?

http://www.justfuryou.com/index.html

Sharing a giveway for all the parents who read our blog!

2010-07-22T17:16:00.001-04:00

Check out these amazing baby products and enter their incredible giveaway!!

http://cadenlane.com/

2010-07-21T21:52:00.001-04:00

We just found out that a local SW Florida store, Discount Pets and Supplies, will give anyone that rescues/adopts a dog from a shelter a free bag of premium dog food and 20% off supplies! Check them out!

http://discountpetsandsupplies.com/onlinestore/extra_info_pages.php?pages_id=1

Just sharing a link...

2010-07-20T13:46:00.001-04:00

http://www.ears4life.com/

Where are you?

2010-07-20T11:53:00.002-04:00

My client isn't here. I am ready for them and they didn't show up! It's so sad, didn't they know I was waiting for them? Tara and Michelle (one of our interns) are getting things done but there is nothing for me to do. I love working and really don't like this organizing and paperwork time. Be sure to cancel appointments in advance if you have them! We miss you when you aren't here!

Let's hope the 12pm shows up!
Abbey

Pet CPR

2010-07-15T21:34:00.000-04:00

Thanks to our newest counselor, Liz and her therapy dog (Somer) for sharing this pet CPR video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AFrUiRIeVo

Check me out...

2010-07-12T21:31:00.000-04:00

Bode here! Abbey told me to get off the computer, but I just have to post this!

Last week our friends came by when we were having a paperwork day. We don't have many friends over just to play, especially on paperwork days, but their mom just opened her photography studio (Set Free Photography) in our building and we are excited to have them around! Tara got to do her work and we got to play and play and play!!

I love this picture that was drawn of me, that I just have to share!! I wish it was on paper so we could hang it up, but it was on the dry erase! Aren't I cute? It looks just like me! I can't wait for another paperwork day when we can

Ok, off to bed for me....(yawn)...Bode

New chapters....

2010-07-12T21:17:00.000-04:00

There are new chapters in our lives that come along; some we plan and some we don't! This happens with many of our clients throughout their time in therapy as well. Last week we both got to tell a client goodbye and wish her well as her family relocates.

We have found many of us struggle with these new adventures because they require risk and change. Change is hard to adjust and adapt to.

Putting a smile on our face is what we need in life and it will come with every chapter we unveil! Take a leap and try new things...we do every day with the work we do!

Onward....

Abbey and Bode

MY BUNNY!!!!!!!

2010-06-19T22:35:00.000-04:00

For those of you that follow our blog, you know I have a bunny at work that I love oh so much! It is the only toy I keep at the office and it makes me feel safe. When I am tired or nervous, I suck on my bunny to help me sleep. Yesterday my bunny became part of the therapy!

It was my third client of the day, which is my limit, and I was becoming very sleepy. Our client started playing basketball. He talked about things that he was working on and then grabbed my bunny. I didn't know what to do...so I followed him around the room and listened while he held onto my bunny. Next thing I knew...Bunny was in the microwave and I couldn't get it out! Tara thought, once again, that this was funny and turned it into a lesson with our client. Meanwhile I worked to get my bunny out!

What do you do when your favorite item is misplaced or taken from you? Do you know how your favorite toys became your favorite toy? I don't! This is not even a dog toy, it is just a toy that I fell in love with at the office!

Off to bed...dreaming of Bunny!
Bode

There are littles all over!

2010-06-10T12:21:00.000-04:00

Ahh....we finally have time to write! We started fostering dogs for the Gulf Coast Humane Society again, however this was a new adventure! Darci has been living with us for two weeks. She is now 10-11 weeks old. We are still getting used to having a human baby and a canine baby in the house...don't get us wrong, we love them both but there is quite an adjustment!

Darci is only with us until her hair grows back, which is taking some time! She is a Rottweiler (possibly mixed with something else) and is going to need a good home. Do you know anyone?

We took it upon ourselves to help the humans train her. So far she can go in and out of the doggie door, sit, stop chewing and kiss instead....and the big one---she is almost house broken!! We are so proud of ourselves!

Darci and Abbey love to roll around and wrestle...Bode is still trying to figure out how to not step on her! Tara keeps telling us she is going to be a big dog, but right now she is tiny! Oh and you can tell from the picture that since we are allowed on the couch....so is she :)

Having house guests can be challenging, but also a learning experience. We have to learn to share more and do a pretty good job! What do you like about house guests? Are you relieved when they leave?

Enjoy the rest of this HOT Florida Thursday (we don't even want to go outside)!

Love,

Abbey and Bode!

This week's adoptable...

2010-05-29T23:31:00.000-04:00

Meet Opie....

Hello, I am Opie and I was brought to the shelter, because my owner could not afford to look after me anymore. I have been here a really long time and want a home to call my own. I am very laid back and would love to live with someone who has a big yard. I would love to have a doggy door and be able to come in and out as I choose. I love to lie in the fresh air and watch the world go by. I am not a very energetic dog and I consider walks a necessary exercise that I prefer to keep as short as I can. I am housetrained and have lived inside most of my life. I am a little nervous around lots of people at first, so you need to be easy on me. I don't want to go home with other dogs or children as I just don't like them. I love to cuddle and guard the house! I turned 5 a few months ago and did not like celebrating my birthday at the shelter!

**If Opie could call your home his forever home, please take time to meet this sweet guy at the Gulf Coast Humane Society!

Eating habits!

2010-05-29T23:26:00.000-04:00

Check out this great article Geoff found...it shows which foods should not be given to us canines! Keep this information handy so you don't accidentally hurt your canine friends and loved ones!

Poisonous foods for dogs

Bode no like....

2010-05-26T22:30:00.000-04:00

I am finally over my trauma of the vet's office. I was nervous and they laughed at me! Yes, I realize I weigh 120lbs, but I still get scared very easily...don't you have things that scare you?

Here is how my vet appointment went...I already knew Abbey gets scared and I tried to be tough and tell myself I would be safe and they were nice. I smiled and eagerly walked in and then froze in the doorway. As soon as Tara gave my name I looked for a chair and tried to climb under it...guess what? I don't fit under chairs but I sure do try to get under them! The people in the waiting room started to laugh, so I began to shake and found a corner to put my head in. I told the other dogs that came in that I wanted to be left alone and they listened...I wasn't mean...just said I was scared and the understood.

When it was my turn I politely followed the vet tech back and tried to go under another chair. Those chairs didn't work either so I attempted to sit on Tara...that didn't last long! We then had to go to the scale and I spotted a jar of cookies...I was slightly distracted, so when they asked me to sit on the scale, I did and proceed to put my paw into the vet tech's paw. Everyone started laughing at me, including Tara! I put my paw down and got weighed and then a couple of the techs were asking me to shake and give them high fives...they loved my skills! Once again I was distracted until I saw the white lab coats...back under the chair I tried to go!

Tara filled them in on how great I am doing and get this...they said my muzzle is graying....WHAT? I don't want to turn gray; I am only 4!! Next I thought was the perfect scenario...I watched the vet tech close the two doors in our room and then carefully I tried to mimic how she turned the handle and escape...Tara sat and laughed, but I kept trying. Then the vet came in...she seems nice but I started to shake and they laughed at how scared I was and said I was the biggest dog in the building but the most afraid!

I had to get a shot and they took blood but I survived and then comes the best part.....COOKIES, COOKIES, COOKIES!

So as much as I don't like the vet, I got through it and got cookies to make friends with them before we left, but I could not get out of there fast enough!!

Just retyping this was stressful...sometimes we have to do things we don't like, but good thing for me that I don't need anymore shots for three more years!!

Time for sleep....

Bode

This week's adoptable...

2010-05-21T14:15:00.000-04:00

Meet Sheila...
She loves to love!

Sheila just turned five, but still has plenty of love and energy to give you! She is medium sized dog and ready to snuggle with you!

According to the Gulf Coast Humane Society..."She is a GSD/Blue Heeler cross and a perfect dog for adults and older teenagers. Sheila needs her personal space to be respected and does not enjoy hugs from humans, or being jumped all over by other dogs. She is extremely affectionate with those she loves and will be a little protective over them. A fabulous dog."

Can you give Sheila a forever home? Contact the Gulf Coast Humane Society today!!

Safety First!

2010-05-17T23:54:00.000-04:00

Buckle up!! That's right...Bode here to tell you that I even ride safely in the car!! I was at work and was getting tired, so Tara asked for a dog swap. Abbey and I switched places, but I had to ride in the smaller car to get home. Since the baby was in the back, that meant I couldn't sit back there...so we tried the front! The alarm kept dinging that told us to buckle my seat belt, so we listened! I felt just like a human and smiled the entire car ride!

Don't forget to buckle up!

Bode!

This week's adoptable...

2010-05-16T23:46:00.000-04:00

Have you been checking out our friends who are looking for forever homes?This week we are featuring Slate from the Gulf Coast Humane Society. His 2nd birthday is coming up and you could give him the best gift ever!!

Our contact at the shelter stated: "Slate is a very cool dog, highly active, but mellow once he has worked off his energy. He likes most dogs, gets along with all humans, but might not be a very good idea with very small kids and cats."

Slate could use a family that is open to helping him learn more training and tricks and really wants a family who likes to run, jog or just go on very long hikes with their faithful companion.

Stop by the Gulf Coast Humane Society, meet Slate and his friends and open your home to be a forever home to a deserving dog, like Slate!

Get me out of here....

2010-05-12T16:51:00.000-04:00

Did you know that the vet has my file flagged as being overly anxious? I don't know what happens, but when I am at the vet's office, I get silly! Tara took this picture of me trying to sit on her before the doctor came in. I was really trying to convince her to take me home. All I was doing was getting a physical, but it just makes me so nervous....

As soon as we walk in, I crouch down and slink around. I greet other dogs nicely, but don't understand why they aren't scared. Do they not know what is behind those doors? Do they not realize that those people in the white coats with treats are going to do things to their body that make them uncomfortable? At least we get a treat out of it!

I have a clean bill of health, other than my seasonal allergies. I have to take some benedryl when I itch through this flower season, but overall I am great! Bad news was the vet told Tara that I cannot layout in the sun anymore. I am getting more freckles and could get skin cancer...laying out is one of my favorite things to do!

Good thing I got that appointment over with...now if I stay healthy I don't have to go back for awhile! Don't tell Bode but I heard Tara schedule an appointment for him to get three shots in two weeks....

Have a great week,

Abbey (this is me once we got home and I was relaxed!)

2010-05-10T18:13:00.000-04:00

Dear retractable leash owners,

I know it is easy to walk your dogs on retractable leashes, but it's not always used properly! Did you know that other dogs do not know your leash is retractable? When we are passing you and you are not paying attention to your dog and let them extend the leash until they almost reach us, we (dogs on standard leashes) become agitated and go into a defense mode. Please be aware of others and don't use a retractable leash just so you don't have to keep up with your dog!

Sincerely,

Bode!

**Hi Blog followers,

Bode here! Just got back from a walk with Tara and the baby. This man was on his cell phone and all over the street letting his dog on the retractable leash pull him around. I thought the dog was not on a leash and got anxious, however I eventually saw the leash but still could not get calm because the dog was coming for our baby!! Finally the man realized what was happening and wanted to know why my tail went down. Tara explained I was startled and protecting her and the baby. The man finally got it and went to the other side of the street. Retractable leashes are hard to see and I just wasn't sure what this other dog was going to do! Maybe now I will remember him and not get so scared, but I think everyone should have to have bright colored leashes like my Red Sox leash!!

This week's adoptable...

2010-05-09T22:34:00.000-04:00

Meet Buster!

Buster is at the Gulf Coast Humane Society and wanting to find his forever home! The GCHS says:

Buster is a super, wonderful dog!! He must know that he looks like a teddy bear, because he acts like one too. He loves people and cuddling and giving them kisses.

Have you stopped by the Humane Society recently to check out Buster and his friends? Are you ready to open your home to some four legged love? Buster is your guy! Visit: www.gulfcoasthumanesociety.org for more information on how to meet Buster and the other dogs and cats waiting for you!!

Happy Mother's Day!

2010-05-09T18:02:00.000-04:00

Today is a day to spoil Tara! She is our human mommy and we love her very much! We all got to sleep in together, take a nap, layout in the sun, and play with the baby!

We hope each of you are loving your human or four-legged mommy's today, as it is the day to celebrate them!!

With love,

Abbey and Bode

Baby stuff is fun!

2010-05-05T15:59:00.000-04:00

I found a new hiding place! One of the baby's play mats was put on my bed, so I decided that I must be allowed to use it! It is so soft and cuddly...I wonder if it can be mine? I didn't realize it was a hiding place until I heard Tara looking for me and realized she couldn't see me because of the sides that come up. I eventually made some noise so she could find me.

Do you have a hiding place? Is it as fun as mine? I think having a hiding place is a good thing so that we can rest and take a breath away from all the busy times in our lives!

Alright, enough blogging...I'm going to see if I can go back in there before the baby needs it!

Abbey

Tara wears our baby around

2010-05-03T12:25:00.000-04:00

Have you heard of baby wearing? We watch it all the time but don't want to try it! Tara wears the baby in this thing called a sleepy wrap so she can still play with us, cook, and do work while she is at home. Everyone seems calms when the baby is in the wrap and it looks like she ties it around her different ways. We tried to get a picture, but since we can't snap the camera button we have to wait for another human to be home!

Here is a link to a blog that is giving away a sleep wrap, you should check it out: http://lewiscrazyhouse.blogspot.com/2010/05/sleepy-wrap-giveaway-welcome-home-baby.html

This week's adoptable...

2010-04-30T11:29:00.000-04:00

Have you met Onyx? You should! Our heart goes out to him! Onyx has been at the Gulf Coast Humane Society for almost two years. We think he has the same struggle that Blackey did...black fur just doesn't get a lot of attention!

Onyx is a medium sized, smooth coat mix who recently turned three years old. Can you imagine living over half your life in a shelter? We know the shelter takes great care of him with their amazing staff and volunteers, however he really doesn't know what it is like to have a family to call his own!

The reason Onyx is in the shelter is because his owner couldn't afford having a pet. The volunteers report great things about Onyx, although they say he is a little shy when he first meets you (especially with men) and then quickly warms up! He won't jump on you, but will show you how excited he is to see you by running circles around you! He also knows how to walk very well on a leash, which means he could be your new exercise companion!

Won't you make this sweet, lovable Onyx a part of your family?

Help us help dogs like Onyx get a forever home! Contact the Gulf Coast Humane Society for more information: www.gulfcoasthumanesociety.org.

Have a great weekend!
Abbey and Bode

Who knew...

2010-04-29T21:55:00.000-04:00

Who knew that this baby in our house would bring in toys for us! We love this pillow. You can slide your head into it nicely. Tara calls it a boppy and has to ask me to get off of it all the time. Good thing we are good sharers in our house, because I LOVE this pillow! There are also many new things that make all kinds of noises and music that interest me!

I love this new human brother of ours and can't wait to share more with him once he really understands Abbey and I are here!

Do you share with your brothers and sisters? It is such a reward to share but sometimes it is hard! I don't know how I will feel if the baby wants to play with my favorite toys, but since he shares with me, I will share with him!

Lot's of love to you this week!
Bode!

PS The Gulf Coast Humane Society is having an event Saturday, check out their website for more information and to support them! We will post the adoptable dog of the week tomorrow!

Something to ponder...

2010-04-25T00:03:00.001-04:00

“The conclusion I have reached is that, above all, dogs are witnesses. They are allowed access to our most private moments. They are there when we think we are alone. Think of what they could tell us. They sit on the laps of presidents. They see acts of love and violence, quarrels and feuds, and the secret play of children. If they could tell us everything they have seen, all of the gaps of our lives would stitch themselves together.” - Carolyn Parkhurst

This week's adoptable...

2010-04-23T13:27:00.000-04:00

We haven't been doing a very good job in featuring those who need a forever home from the Gulf Coast Humane Society. This week we want to tell you about Snickers. Tara and Geoff met Snickers at an event with Blackey and loved him! Snickers really wants to get out of the shelter, so please consider bringing him to your home!

Snickers is an awesome guy! He is a calm, friendly senior dog who gets along with other calm dogs. He is not keen on young whipper-snappers that want to romp all over him and will tell them so.
His heel walk is just beautiful and he can be walked by anybody, weak or strong. He will adjust his speed of walking to yours. Being a gentle soul we would do well in a family that is not too noisy. He is an asset and we can only recommend you make him part of your family.

From a Gulf Coast Humane Society Employee: He is very people friendly, if a little shy at first. One cool thing about him, we take him to the Oasis for lunch every Tuesday and he will definitely be there some time between 11:30 and 12:30. Might bring some interested parties out for lunching.

VOLUNTEER OBSERVATION from Gulf Coast Humane Society:
"I want to let you know that he enjoys a full fledged body massage. He also likes his neck being rubbed, and I think he might be easy to train. I am just completely amazed, because I think I met one of the sweetest doggies ever at the Humane Society!!"

The reality of owning a dog....

2010-04-14T23:10:00.000-04:00

This link was shared with us from another play therapist who loves dogs as much as Tara. Remember that we think we are part of your family and want to be with your forever...please don't adopt a dog unless you can keep him or her forever. We are so blessed with our forever home and the work that we do, but there are many who are not and need to find a forever home because of similar stories to this video.

Our love and support to the Colorado Retriever Rescue for bringing awareness: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3Daz6_pWLo

Our BIG news....

2010-04-12T13:12:00.000-04:00

We have not been blogging like we should lately, but that is because our life changed suddenly three weeks ago today! We got a phone call that we could have a human baby brother. He came home two weeks ago, as he was born a preemie.

We love Bryce so much and help as much as we can! The night time is hard because we do love our sleeping, but we get up to make sure everything is ok! We are helping him train so he is ready for the Red Sox when the time comes!

We thank you for your patience with our delay in sharing our news and not being as active as we should on blog.

With love,

Abbey and Bode